So you’ve recently seen your fave in a concert and now that it’s over, you think your world is also over and you don’t know how to continue with your life. It’s alright. It’s completely normal. That’s exactly how I felt when I saw David Archie for the first time after 9 years. I mean I waited 9 years so it was very hard to move on. I couldn’t function for a few days so if you’re like me, I hope these tips will help you because they worked on me.
1. Acceptance – You have to acknowledge that you have a PCD and don’t think that you’re weird crying over someone who doesn’t even know you. It’s normal because that band/person is important to you. Most people experience that and I can assure you that you are not going insane. 2. Talk to someone – Talk to your concert buddy, BFF, anyone. Let it out. Do not bottle up all these emotions on yourself. It helps because it somehow lessens the emotional baggage that you have. If you think your friend in real life doesn’t care, then go online. It’s actually kinda sad that there are more people who will support you there. Basing from my experience, friends that I met online are nicer. 3. Write about it – Jot down your experience. You can make a thread on Twitter, post a blog entry, or even write on your own journal. Relieve that moment and cry if you feel like it. It’s okay because it just means that it’s an important event in your life. After that, you will feel much better like a weight has been lifted off your chest. I personally thank myself I did that because now I can look back on that moment by reading my own story and instead of crying, I catch myself smiling. 4. Distractions – Try not to think about that band/person for a while. I know it’s hard but at least try. Don’t torture yourself. I’m happy that I found the Dolan Twins when I was dealing with my PCD. I watched their videos all day long and I forgot I was sad. Slowly I’m becoming my normal self again. I could watch the concert videos that I took only to hate on myself for shaking too much I got the worst footage ever. 5. Have something to look forward to – I have an event coming up this month, so my attention is on that thing. You need an excitement in your life to put you back on track. It could be another concert you’ll be attending or a new season of your favourite show. Anything that excites you will help you recover from the mess that you are now. 6. Time – If all else fails, then just let time do its thing. It might take 4 days, a week, two weeks, but trust me you’ll get over it. You might not be able to function right now but you will in no time. Stop stressing yourself out. You’ll be fine. That happiness you felt that day, you will experience that again.
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